What Is an Example of Permissive Parenting?

Medically Reviewed on 5/24/2022
What is an example of permissive parenting?
Permissive parents are always affectionate and warm and fail to impose restrictions, never supporting the idea of controlling their kids.

Parents can directly or indirectly choose different parenting styles to raise their children. Permissive parenting is a type of parenting style, where the parents are extremely affectionate, lenient, and indulgent toward their kids.

Some examples of permissive parenting are as follows:

  • Allowing your child to stay late at night even if the child needs to go to school early the next morning.
  • Never say no to your child to make them happy. For example, if your child throws tantrums for another toy or chocolate, you easily give up on their demands as you don’t want to make them sad.
  • Not setting any rules or timelines for their activities. For example, your child doesn’t have any fixed timing for study, play, and sleep.
  • Never force your child to complete any tasks. For example, you may ask your child to put away their toys after playing but never force them to put away the toys especially if they are feeling tired or if they are unwilling.
  • They are always your priority, and their happiness is always above yours. For example, you will always allow them to choose things for themselves as well as yourself. You will always allow your child to watch their TV programs, even sacrificing your own TV time.

What does a permissive parenting style involve?

The permissive parenting style may have the following characteristics:

  • They are always affectionate and warm and fail to impose restrictions.
  • Parents never support the idea of controlling their kids.
  • Parents are emotionally supportive, loving, and caring toward their children.
  • Permissive parents are not demanding. Kids do not have many responsibilities and are allowed to regulate their behavior and most of their choices.
  • They do not impose any responsibilities on the child and give more importance to their child’s freedom.
  • They give their child freedom to influence major decisions.
  • Various research have found an association between permissive parenting and an increased risk of alcohol use among teenagers as well as higher rates of school misconduct and lower levels of academic achievement.
  • There is no monitoring over snacks and screen time, which can cause obesity and eye damage in children.


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What are the downsides of permissive parenting?

The downsides of this parenting style include:

  • Children cannot effectively deal with different circumstances and life struggles and give up easily.
  • Children may exhibit antisocial behaviors.
  • Children may act irresponsibly or fail to take responsibility for their behavior.
  • Children usually have unlimited freedom regarding bedtimes, homework, mealtimes, and television watching.
  • Children become self-centered and care little about their family, friends, and relatives.
  • Due to no set boundaries, children are usually impulsive and aggressive and lack independence. They are highly susceptible to anxiety and depression.
  • Although children may have high self-esteem and outstanding social skills, they are demanding and selfish.
  • These kids are more likely to look for external validation and wait for others to shower praises on them. This validation-seeking behavior externally or internally can be dangerous.
  • Children are also low in self-reliance, self-control, and achievement.

Which is the best type of parenting style?

Various studies have found that the authoritative type of parenting is the best type of parenting style. Some of the characteristics of the authoritative parenting style include:

  • Being highly responsive to the child’s emotional needs while setting limits
  • Sets limits and is very consistent in setting boundaries
  • Encourage children to be more independent and accomplish things on their own
  • Expect age-appropriate behavior from the child
  • Always discusses and reasons out the idea behind setting the limits
  • Does not unnecessarily interfere in everyday stressful situations faced by the child to make them more capable of facing life

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Medically Reviewed on 5/24/2022
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