Tips for Parenting a Child with ADHD

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What is ADHD?

ADHD, or attention deficit hyperactivity disorder, is a behavioral condition characterized by inattention or difficulty focusing one's attention, impulsiveness, and/or hyperactivity. It has been estimated that approximately 5% of U.S. children have ADHD, according to established diagnostic criteria.

What are the symptoms of ADHD?

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Symptoms of a child with ADHD can include the following:

  • difficulty sustaining and paying attention to tasks at home, school and/or in the community;

  • making careless errors, not following through with tasks or completing instructions;

  • being easily distracted;

  • look like they aren't listening;

  • being easily bored;

  • being forgetful, losing things;

  • having difficulty organizing tasks, activities, or belongings;

  • being fidgety, difficulty remaining seated;

  • talking excessively;

  • running or climbing about excessively when it is inappropriate to do so;

  • having difficulty awaiting his/her turn in a game or activity;

  • interrupting or intruding on others;

  • avoiding or disliking doing things that take a lot of effort for a long time.

Many children with ADHD will have symptoms that persist into adulthood. Effective treatments for ADHD include both medications and behavioral therapies.

Not surprisingly, parenting a child with ADHD can pose special challenges.

Reviewed by Roxanne Dryden-Edwards, MD on 2/29/2012


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Parenting a Child with ADHD - Symptoms Question: Describe the symptoms associated with your child's ADHD.
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Parenting a Child with ADHD - Success Question: In what areas does your child with ADHD excel? How did you help your child find his/her passion?
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Outgrowing ADHD

Viewer asks: We have a 13-year-old with ADHD. Is this something that he might outgrow?

Doctor's response: This is a very frequently asked question from families, as well as from the adolescent with ADHD. The teen frequently wishes to "stop taking his medicine" as a sign of independence (or rebellion?), and the families have frequently worked so long and hard with their child that they hope that the problem will now be "outgrown." The answer: In some teens, the symptoms may appear to be less obvious. However, in almost all instances, the symptoms persist through the teen years and frequently into adulthood. According to the National Institute of Mental Health, "About 80% of those who required medication for ADHD as children still need it as teenagers."

In fact, the teen years frequently present new and special challenges. The school day is often longer and the work more challenging, after-school activities interfere with homework completion, multiple teachers and classroom settings make "a routine" less able to be achieved, social stressesheighten and so on. As a parent, your involvement has always been critical to your child's success, but never more so than now!

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