Sexual Addiction
Introduction
The term "sexual addiction" is used to describe the behavior of
a person who has an unusually intense sex drive or an obsession with sex. Sex
and the thought of sex tend to dominate the sex addict's thinking, making it
difficult to work or engage in healthy personal relationships.
Sex addicts engage in distorted thinking, often rationalizing
and justifying their behavior and blaming others for problems. They generally
deny they have a problem and make excuses for their actions.
Sexual addiction also is associated with risk-taking. A person
with a sex addiction engages in various forms of sexual activity, despite the
potential for negative and/or dangerous consequences. In addition to damaging
the addict's relationships and interfering with his or her work and social
life, a sexual addiction also puts the person at risk for emotional and
physical injury.
For some people, the sex addiction progresses to involve
illegal activities, such as exhibitionism (exposing oneself in public), making
obscene phone calls, or molestation. However, it should be noted that sex
addicts do not necessarily become sex offenders.
Behaviors associated with sexual addiction include:
- Compulsive masturbation (self-stimulation)
- Multiple affairs (extra-marital affairs)
- Multiple or anonymous sexual partners and/or one-night stands
- Consistent use of pornography
- Unsafe sex
- Phone or computer sex (cybersex)
- Prostitution or use of prostitutes
- Exhibitionism
- Obsessive dating through personal ads
- Voyeurism (watching others) and/or stalking
- Sexual harassment
- Molestation/rape
Generally, a person with a sex addiction gains little
satisfaction from the sexual activity and forms no emotional bond with his or
her sex partners. In addition, the problem of sex addiction often leads to
feelings of guilt and shame. A sex addict also feels a lack of control over the
behavior, despite negative consequences (financial, health, social, and
emotional).
How is sexual addiction treated?
Most sex addicts live in denial of their addiction, and
treating an addiction is dependent on the person accepting and admitting that
he or she has a problem. In many cases, it takes a significant event—such as
the loss of a job, the break-up of a marriage, an arrest, or health crisis—to force the addict to admit to his or her problem.
Treatment of sexual addiction focuses on controlling the
addictive behavior and helping the person develop a healthy sexuality.
Treatment includes education about healthy sexuality, individual counseling,
and marital and/or family therapy. Support groups and 12 step recovery programs
for people with sexual addictions (like Sex Addicts Anonymous) also are
available. In some cases, medications used to treat obsessive-compulsive
disorder may be used to curb the compulsive nature of the sex addiction. These
medications include Prozac and Anafranil.
Reviewed by the doctors at The Cleveland Clinic Department of Psychiatry and Psychology.
Reviewed by Daniel Perlman, MD, on September 24, 2007.
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Last Editorial Review: 12/26/2007
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