Everything you've been afraid to ask about sex in cyberspace
By Rob Baedeker
Reviewed By Sheldon Marks, MD
I was having sex with a Dutch girl when my wife walked in. "What do you think about this?" I asked.
"Um," she said. "It's a little weird."
The Dutch girl wasn't real. Well, not really real? She was an avatar in Second Life, the online, 3D, digital world developed by San Francisco company Linden Labs. But there was a real person on a computer somewhere in the world making her avatar have sex with my avatar by clicking a pink ball on the ground. I don't know where the real user was located, but our virtual meeting space within Second Life was called "The Netherlands." Or maybe "she" was really a he, controlling a female avatar. Impossible to say for sure.
If it's not clear already, "virtual sex" can be a little complicated.
Virtual sex, teledildonics, and real life
"It's not sex but it is sex," says Regina Lynn, author of The Sexual Revolution 2.0 and a columnist on sex and technology for Wired.com. "I don't like the phrase 'virtual sex,'" Lynn says, "because it trivializes the experience. There are many ways to share sex with people in virtual spaces, and you still have to communicate to the other person what you like and don't like. It's such a mental and emotional experience. That's part of what turns people on."
From adult video games to instant messaging and chat rooms to web cams to online interactive worlds to Internet-enabled sex toys, the means for enjoying erotic experience via a remote connection seem to be multiplying faster than you can say "teledildonics."
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