Answer:
A number of scales have been developed for use by professionals and
individuals to rate the degree of lifestyle stress that a person is
experiencing. Many of these are based upon a person's perceived level of
stress or symptoms that they may be experiencing, such as worrying,
sleeplessness, etc. Other scales evaluate stress by taking into account the
number of life-altering or significant changes (both positive and negative)
that an individual is facing at the moment. Examples of such changes include
the death of a spouse, divorce, the birth of a child, starting a new job,
and others. According to these scales, the more external changes that an
individual faces, the greater his or her stress level may be.
But perhaps a better way to evaluate your own stress is to take stock of
your daily life. Are you content and happy? Do you generally feel
emotionally and physically well? If you're constantly plagued by anxiety and
worry, or if you are facing physical or emotional hardships, you're likely
experiencing significant stress. You could also ask a spouse or significant
other if they notice any changes in your mood or temperament. Talking about
your situation is a stress-release method and can reveal hidden, subtle
stressors.
Tolerance for stress varies greatly among individuals, so it isn't
possible to compare your situation with that of another person and expect
your particular stress levels to be the same. Your inner feelings and
overall perception of your mental health are the best index of your stress
levels.
Thank you for your question.