The Agony of Kidney Stones (cont.)

He later regretted his decision.

"At 10:30 p.m., I was in the emergency room on my knees begging to be given anything at all," Stokes says. "The only way to describe the pain is to have a little man with a razor blade, hacking at the ureter."

Stokes was given drugs and told to stay in the hospital, where he stayed for a day and a half. After being sent home this time, he started taking the Vicodin every four hours.

"By the time Sunday evening came around, 24 hours later, I had not slept," he says. "I walked the whole time, back and forth through my house. I couldn't sit down, and I was taking the Vicodin every hour. I was completely overdoing it."

Stokes was also taking medication to help take the tension off the ureter, but used in combination with the Vicodin, Stokes had a drug conflict, which he describes as an "LSD trip."

"I was hallucinating," he says. "People were talking that weren't there."

The next morning he called his doctor, unable to stand the pain and unable to continue the medication. He had another KUB x-ray done and while looking at the results with his doctor, he began to feel relief from the pain.

Stokes' doctor determined he had passed the stones, although they hadn't actually come out yet. He determined the stones had moved to the bladder, and when he returned home, they came out.

He figured it was over, but as months went by, he started having an urge to urinate that wasn't there before.

"Whenever there was urine present, I immediately had to pee," he says. "Then over time it got worse and worse. Then my bowels got messed up, tightening from the tension, always having to go to the bathroom."

After a number of x-rays were done, Stokes figured it was a kidney stone. He was put on several medications to control his bladder and bowel. The doctors thought it was trauma, but it kept getting worse.

Then one day Stokes was having lunch with a friend, who was also a urologist.

"He said, 'Boy you don't look good,' and I told him I'm having problems with the trauma that occurred from the kidney stone last year," he explains.

After hearing Stokes' symptoms, his friend told him he thought he might have a kidney stone lodged right on the nerve, right at the base where the ureter comes to the bladder, a place that wouldn't be visible in an x-ray.

The next day Stokes had his urologist order a CAT scan.

"When the nurse came back in she said, 'You must be in a lot of pain.' "

She explained they found a 4 mm kidney stone right where his friend thought it would be—lodged on the nerve at the base where the ureter comes to the bladder.

Stokes next underwent a procedure to go through the penis, in through the bladder, then up to the ureter. The stone would be lasered into pieces and removed.