Sex Matters®: Start Me Up
Q: My husband and I have a discrepancy in desire. How do we make it match?
A: Many people wait a long time before they try to do anything about sexual-frequency discrepancies -- sometimes 15 or more years.
When this happens, couples settle into a pattern-they get used to turning in each night and staying on their own sides of the bed. How do you overcome this pattern? Here are some ideas:
If that's the problem, then take a look at how the sex you do have gets started. Is it always predictable? Does the same person always initiate it?