Overcome Your Fitness Obstacles
How to identify your UFOs -- your unidentified fitness obstacles
By Dulce Zamora
Reviewed By Brunilda Nazario, MD
Want 2005 to be the year when you finally follow through on a New Year's resolution to get fit? It is possible if you have a plan for regular exercise and a well-balanced diet. Research shows good nutrition and physical activity are key ingredients in weight loss, enhanced muscle tone, and overall health.
This is common knowledge. Yet why is it that in January, motivation is high to eat right and work out, but by February, resolves are less than robust? Do people no longer want to get fit? Have they found better ways to reach their goal?
There are several theories explaining why the best of New Year's resolutions sputter before they're realized.
Pauline Wallin, PhD, a clinical psychologist in private practice in Camp Hill, Penn., blames the "inner brat" in all of us for thwarting positive change. The inner brat is an internal voice that acts like a toddler. It doesn't like discomfort or inconvenience. It wants what it wants when it wants it.
"Our inner brat convinces us that we don't really have to exercise that day," explains Wallin. "When it doesn't want to exert itself, it will make excuses like 'It's too cold,' 'It's too dark,' 'I'm too tired,' or 'It's too late.'"
When people pay attention to their inner brat, they tend to negotiate with it. They may promise the little voice they will work out or eat right starting tomorrow. The next day, they may put off their fitness plan again, until they figure it's too late to start anything for the week. So they'll decide to begin their resolution next week, next month, or next year.
This series of putting off important goals can be discouraging. To fight the inner brat, refuse to work with it. "You don't negotiate with a little brat," says Wallin, who has authored Taming Your Inner Brat: A Guide for Transforming Self-Defeating Behavior.
It would also help to get to know the inner brat's tactics and to find a way to regain control. Concentrate on the reason you are making changes in your life. This will divert your attention from the little voice's ranting.
Dozens of other factors could distract from a New Year's resolution to get fit, says Michael Gerrish, exercise physiologist, psychotherapist, and author of The Mind-Body Makeover Project: A 12-Week Plan for Transforming Your Body and Life.
Gerrish says there are unidentified fitness obstacles (UFOs) to positive change. These UFOs block the motivation to eat right and exercise. They include things such as:
The 52 most common UFOs are listed in Gerrish's book, which has a test people can take to figure out which obstacles they have. The test is not meant to be diagnostic, but it could make people aware of barriers to success.
"Until people find out that they have these kinds of problems, anything that they do to try to get themselves motivated is, in general, going to be for naught," says Gerrish.
For instance, people who resolve to work out at 5 a.m. daily may have a slim chance of success if they do not realize they have low-grade depression, seasonal affective disorder, or a hormone imbalance that could make getting up early an extremely difficult task.
Once people figure out obstacles to change, they can determine how to address them. To treat a medical or biochemical problem, Gerrish recommends a visit to a doctor. Psychological trouble could be managed with the help of a mental health professional.
"The likelihood of success will be much greater if you address obstacles right upfront," says Gerrish.
Actions Speak Louder Than Words
John C. Norcross, PhD, co-author of Changing for Good, conducted small scientific studies on New Year's resolutions and found successful resolvers behaved in a similar manner.
"For the most part, it's what you do, not who you are [that effects change]," says Norcross, noting that personal characteristics, types of problems, and levels of motivation make little difference. "Behavior is what matters."
According to Norcross' research, successful resolvers did the following: