MedicineNet.com
About Us | Privacy Policy | Site Map
November 25, 2009
MedicineNet home Picture Slideshows Diseases and conditions Symptoms and signs Procedures and tests Medications Health and Living Picture Image Collection MedTerms medical dictionary
Font Size
A
A
A


The Cleveland Clinic

Depression:
Coping With Depression

The subject of mental illness makes some people uncomfortable. People who don't understand mental illnesses such as depression may mistakenly think the person affected by mental illness is "crazy" or can simply "snap out of it."

Keep in mind that people who are depressed don't choose to feel that way. Depression is a medical illness, like diabetes or high blood pressure, not a personal short-coming or character defect.

Role of Caregiver

The support and involvement of family and friends can be crucial in helping someone who is depressed. It is especially helpful if family and friends encourage the patient to stick with treatment and practice the coping techniques and problem-solving skills he or she is learning during psychotherapy.

How Can I Help?

  • Make sure that your loved one is evaluated and treated by a trained mental health professional. This is essential to properly diagnose depression and find the right kind of treatment.
  • Educate yourself, your family, and friends about mental health problems and depression in particular. This will help you understand what you loved one is experiencing.
  • Someone with depression needs constant support. This can be draining, especially if it lasts for long periods of time. It is, however, one of the most important parts of successful treatment. People with depression can feel alone and isolated -- giving consistent support and understanding are critical.
  • Help the person with depression to stick to his or her treatment plan. This means making sure that medicines are available if prescribed, attending therapy sessions with the person if needed, helping make recommended lifestyle changes, and encouraging the person to follow up with the proper healthcare provider, especially if the treatment needs to be adjusted.

Tips for the Caregiver

Living with a depressed person can be very difficult and stressful on family members and friends. Here are some suggestions for living with a depressed person that may make things easier for you and more beneficial for the depressed person:

  • Recognize that depression is often expressed as hostility, rejection, and irritability.
  • Adopt an interaction style that puts the depressed person in charge. For example, instead of suggesting, "Let's go to the movies tonight," try this: "I'd like to see a movie tonight. Which one of these do you want to see with me?"
  • Encourage the depressed person to seek professional help. Accompany and support your loved one, but make it clear that it is his or her responsibility to get better.
  • Remember that treatment is very effective and your loved one will improve with treatment within a few months.
  • Support opportunities for the depressed person to be rewarded, such as visiting friends or going out for activities. Don't force these, though.
  • Make sure you notice and praise any significant improvement. Be genuine.
  • Leave time for yourself and your own needs. Take breaks from the depressed person from time to time. It will help both of you.
  • Consider family or marital therapy: these forms of therapy may be beneficial in bringing together all those affected by depression and helping them learn effective ways to cope together.
  • Consider turning to support groups, either for the depressed person, or for you as his or her family member.

Reviewed by the doctors at The Cleveland Clinic Department of Psychiatry and Psychology.

Edited by Cynthia Haines, MD, WebMD, July 2005.


Portions of this page © The Cleveland Clinic 2000-2005

© 1996-2005 WebMD Inc. All rights reserved.


Last Editorial Review: 11/28/2005






Suggested Reading by Our Doctors
MedicineNet Doctors
  • Ovarian Cancer - Get information on ovarian cancer symptoms, diagnosis, tests, staging, research, surgery and risk factors. Treatment options include surgery, chemotherapy and radiation.
  • Colon Cancer - Get the facts on colon cancer (colorectal cancer) causes, symptoms, diagnosis (colonoscopy), prevention, treatment, statistics, screening, stages and survival rates.
  • Brain Tumor - Read about brain tumor symptoms such as headaches, nausea or vomiting, balance and walking problems, mood and personality changes, memory problems, and numbness or tingling in the legs.

Latest Medical News



Emotional Wellness

Get tips on therapy and treatment.


Are you Depressed? Take the Quiz

Your Guide to Symptoms & Signs: Pinpoint Your Pain












Health categories:

Slideshows | Diseases & Conditions | Symptoms & Signs | Procedures & Tests | Medications | Health & Living | News & Views | Medical Dictionary

Popular health centers:

Allergies | Arthritis | Cancer | Diabetes | Digestion | Healthy Kids | Heart | Men's Health | Mental Health | Women's Health | More...

Publications:

ePublications (PDFs) | XML News via RSS | Audio Podcasts | Email Newsletters

MedicineNet.com:

About Us | Privacy Policy | Site Map | WebMD® | Medscape® | eMedicine® | eMedicineHealth® | RxList®

This website is certified by Health On the Net Foundation. Click to verify. This site complies to the HONcode standard for trustworthy health information:
verify here.

©1996-2009 MedicineNet, Inc. All rights reserved. Notices and Legal Disclaimer.
MedicineNet does not provide medical advice, diagnosis or treatment. See additional information.