Valentine's Day: Look, Feel Better
Need some Valentine's Day ideas for looking and feeling better? Read on.
By Star Lawrence
Reviewed By Brunilda Nazario, MD
Did you used to count the valentines in your crepe paper-festooned shoebox in school? Some people consider The Day of the Cupid to be a score-keeping day. Is it true love? Jewelry or flowers -- what have I "earned" this year? Is only Mom going to send me a valentine?
What if -- instead -- you kicked off a campaign today to look better and feel better about yourself by the time Big Red rolls around?
In his book, Three Steps to Happiness! Healing Through Joy, internist Jacob Teitelbaum, MD, says happiness is a natural state of being -- that the body and brain want to be joyful, appreciative, and magnetic. As the Day of Love approaches:
Make a Few Eating Changes
Obviously, there is no time to lose that 50 pounds before this Valentine's Day, but at a pound a week, you could be slipping into a size 8 this time next year. All for the love of yourself -- not for the love of another! To lose a pound a week, you need to eat 500 calories less each day than you are burning.
It's easy to "take five" off a day's intake:
As for what you can do now, today, beauty expert Sharon Haver advises to cut out salt for a few days before Valentine's Day. "You will lose a couple of pounds, your dress will fall better, and your shoes will fit better."
Put Your Best Face Forward
Most women have a routine of cleansing and moisturizing. Many also exfoliate. But for a quick lift, Audrey Kunin, MD, an assistant clinical instructor of dermatology at the University of Kansas School of Medicine in Kansas City, Kan., recommends a handheld microdermabrasion device and crystal cream -- items you can find in a drugstore or makeup store. "I use one myself," she says, cautioning that you must follow instructions and use it only for the prescribed few minutes.
Kunin also recommends a diamond dust callus remover to pretty up your feet for the dance floor. But diabetics should avoid this and should have their podiatrist do their foot care.
Professionally applied makeup, in a salon, is also a treat on the night-of. "Dust some metallic glitter on your shoulders," Kunin says, cautioning that some might get an itchy rash and to test first.
What about a peel? Remember that scene in Sex and the City when a peel gone bad sends Samantha under a black veil? "Deep glycolic peels should be done a month in advance," Kunin says. "You might be able to do a buffered glycolic a day or two before." (Botox also should be done no sooner than two weeks before you are going to a special function, she says.) You could probably get your lips puffed with cadaver collagen (if that isn't 'nuff said there) a day before -- or your nasal labial folds (Botox is not for below the nose anyway).
The afternoon of Feb. 14th, if your face is not too tortured at this point, you might try a mask. Haver also recommends a body scrub -- toss some kosher salt or oatmeal into a handful of liquid soap. For your face, stirred-up egg whites, applied and allowed to tighten, smooth skin before makeup. Teabags for the eye lids also reduce puffiness and make eyes sparkle as if you had a three-hour nap.
If your hair looks dry, apply a little shea butter to the ends, then rinse, Haver advises. Be sparing, the stuff is very oily.