Are You Too Embarrassed to Ask Your Doctor?
Experts share tips for patients who are afraid to tell doctors what's really on their minds.
Reviewed By Brunilda Nazario
Sometimes doctors call it the "doorknob moment." The physician's hand is reaching for the doorknob to leave the examining room and the patient suddenly gathers the courage to blurt out the real reason for the visit.
"Uh, one more thing. I think I saw some blood in the toilet. Could that be bad?"
Or: "The other night walking the dog, I felt this funny sort of stabbing feeling in my chest, but it went away."
Or: "My head started hurting on the right when my husband kind of pushed me against the wall. Could that have anything to do with it?"
"This definitely happens," James Hubbard, MD, MPH, tells WebMD. Hubbard is editor of Family Doctor: The Magazine That Makes Housecalls and a doctor in private practice for 24 years. "Patients know the doctor is in a hurry and think it's 'now or never.'"
The days of Dr. Welby and the long, personal chat with the doctor are definitely over. A 2001 study done at Rutgers University and published in The New England Journal of Medicine showed that the average visit is 17 minutes, which includes the physical exam.